I'm not going to go into what happened, or what was said.
But I thought about it,
My exes have pissed me off endless times, Cheated, Lied. ETC
But I thought about it, I never, ever wanted to do any physical harm to them.
Now of course, I've said something like, "I'm going to kick his ASS!!" when M cheated on me. But was I really going to do it? Nope.
Why? Mostly because I don't like fighting/arguing. Theres only like, 1 of my exes that I've ever seriously wished misfortune on. (Well, He almost drove a friend of mine to kill herself. So. That contributed to it, and other reasons.)
But yep, Never wanted to harm them with my own hands.
Even one of my exes, this dude stalked me, did not want me to talking to anyone that was not him, threatened my friends, questioned me when I talked to a guy, asked my friends daily if I said anything about him, or if I was talking to another guy.
Even almost fought one of my friends because he liked me- no other reason besides that. Just because he liked me. I dislike this guy with a passion, but I don't wish misfortune on him, or have ever even thought about me, or anyone else harming him.
Maybe because I'm just a nice girl? Possibly.
Even for another example, This guy. I will be honest, I fell for him and all. He apparently "loved" me too. But he cheated on me... Like 10+ times. (How do I know? He announced it on Facebook. I guess he forgot I was on his friendslist.)
And I've told a few friends, "I swear. When I see him I'm beating the shit out of him"
What did I do next time I saw him? Sat on the couch and watched Adventure time with him in silence. Yeah. I know. Stupid right? And even weeks later after our breakup when we became friends. We got in a swearing fight over rap music. I thought again, "Yep. I'mma beat his ass". Did I? No. Did I dream about it? No.
And most likely, I never will. I'm not a hateful person. I think Idle-Threats alot of the time, but I would never want to harm one of my boyfriends/exes.
-- Now hiring someone else to harm them is another story... :) Joking!!
- Have you ever wished Misfortune, Such as physical harm, death, or just anything plain-- well. Unfortunate on your partner?
- Have you ever harmed your partner, or wished to do so?
