I was talking to a close friend of mine, being the young inexperienced minors we are, we started chatting about sex. He was telling me about this girl he really really liked, and wanted to eat her out.
I laughed and told him, "Why? Do you even have the slightest idea of what goes on down there?!"
He smiled and said, "Yeah I do. But she's clean! And I just want to make her feel good!"
And he asked me, "Like, what are giving blow jobs like? How does it even taste?"
We got into a discussion about it, then he told me, "I'd never let a girl suck my dick, it's disrespectful".
I've heard alot of guys say the exact same thing, and I'm kind of puzzled about it.
How exactly is it disrespectful? Is there something I'm missing? Do Blow Jobs have some secret meaning?
If the girl (or guy o. o) is willing to do it, how is there any disrespect happening?
And theres another thing that puzzles me, I also hear so many guys brag about like,
"Yeahhh, my tongue game is amazing ma :)" (For those who don't understand slang, they're referring to their ability to preform cunnlingus) and yeah, they're apparently pro at eating a chick out and all... some will even say, "Real men eat pussy!" but, then they think blow jobs are disgusting/disrespectful.
I mean, cunnlingus and felatio are both forms of oral sex. And honestly, I find cunnlingus to be more "Disgusting" than felatio . (I mean, seriously dude. DO GUYS EVEN KNOW WHAT THE HELL GOES ON DOWN THERE?)
I mean, before anyone thinks I'm opinion-bashing, its a basic right to do whatever you want with your body, if you dislike receiving or giving oral sex, its your right as an American citizen to not participate in such acts.
But I'm just confused o___o
I laughed and told him, "Why? Do you even have the slightest idea of what goes on down there?!"
He smiled and said, "Yeah I do. But she's clean! And I just want to make her feel good!"
And he asked me, "Like, what are giving blow jobs like? How does it even taste?"
We got into a discussion about it, then he told me, "I'd never let a girl suck my dick, it's disrespectful".
I've heard alot of guys say the exact same thing, and I'm kind of puzzled about it.
How exactly is it disrespectful? Is there something I'm missing? Do Blow Jobs have some secret meaning?
If the girl (or guy o. o) is willing to do it, how is there any disrespect happening?
And theres another thing that puzzles me, I also hear so many guys brag about like,
"Yeahhh, my tongue game is amazing ma :)" (For those who don't understand slang, they're referring to their ability to preform cunnlingus) and yeah, they're apparently pro at eating a chick out and all... some will even say, "Real men eat pussy!" but, then they think blow jobs are disgusting/disrespectful.
I mean, cunnlingus and felatio are both forms of oral sex. And honestly, I find cunnlingus to be more "Disgusting" than felatio . (I mean, seriously dude. DO GUYS EVEN KNOW WHAT THE HELL GOES ON DOWN THERE?)
I mean, before anyone thinks I'm opinion-bashing, its a basic right to do whatever you want with your body, if you dislike receiving or giving oral sex, its your right as an American citizen to not participate in such acts.
But I'm just confused o___o
